5 reasons to have a micro wedding

As we enter into wedding season, it鈥檚 no surprise that the landscape of weddings has changed drastically over the past year. COVID restrictions in many regions have kept the attendance limit at weddings much lower than most people would usually want, and in some cases prohibited gathering entirely. Micro weddings have been a saving grace for couples who don鈥檛 want or are unable to delay their nuptials. But a pandemic is not the only reason to consider a micro wedding. Some couples have a much smaller network of friends and family, some want to be budget-conscious, and some want to elope but their mothers just won鈥檛 stand for it. Whatever reason you鈥檙e considering a micro wedding, here are some benefits that will make you feel great about your choice!

1. Unique venues

white table and chairs decorated for a wedding

One benefit to a smaller wedding is a wider range of venue options. Many traditional venues have a minimum number of guests for their wedding packages, so your micro wedding is a great reason to explore other options. Have you always wanted to get married in a library or a national park? What about your parent鈥檚 backyard or the restaurant where you and your partner went on your first date? A smaller guest list opens up amazing opportunities to have your wedding in a place that is meaningful to you as a couple, and can make the day that much more special.

2. More bang for your budget

A smaller wedding has the perk of coming with a smaller price tag, if that鈥檚 the route you choose to go. A shorter guest list means less rentals for tables and seating, less people to feed, and likely a smaller bar bill. With the average wedding in Canada , being able to drive that number down is a huge deal. On the other hand, some couples may want to stick to their larger budget and use it to give their guests a VIP experience. Maybe you鈥檒l opt to add a course to your meal or get really creative with your d茅cor. Some couples with guest lists on the smaller side are even opting to pay for their guests鈥 rooms and transportation.

3. Intimate guest experience

Have you ever looked at your guest list and thought, 鈥淚鈥檓 never going to get a chance to talk to all of these people,鈥 or worse, 鈥淚 don鈥檛 even know this person鈥? Having a micro wedding can help mitigate both of those problems. With less guests in attendance, there鈥檚 a better chance of you getting to spend some actual quality time with your loved ones 鈥 or at least much more time than the customary drop-in at their table. The confines of a micro wedding also mean there is no room for obligation invites. If you are only inviting 30 people to your wedding, it鈥檚 much easier to tell your mom鈥檚 great-aunt鈥檚 boyfriend who you have never had a conversation with that there is just no room at your venue.

wedding cake and two champagne glasses

4. Less stress

A smaller crowd always means less coordination in some way or another. Whether it鈥檚 a smaller venue so they are more flexible with your needs, or a more streamline catering experience because there are 20 of you instead of 200, these factors can relieve a lot of anxiety. Having only your very nearest and dearest there may also mean you feel less pressure for everything to be perfect the entire time. You can know for certain that every single person in the room is there because you and your partner hand-selected them to be and that they have your best interests at heart. They are the people that will be in your lives for the long-term, stewarding your relationship along the way. And that鈥檚 what a wedding should be, isn鈥檛 it?

5. More time to prepare for 鈥渢he big one鈥

This tip may not be everyone鈥檚 cup of tea, but it does have its uses. There鈥檚 all manner of reasons a couple may want to get married as soon as possible but may not have the funds or the time to have the wedding of their dreams. It鈥檚 becoming more common for a couple to have a micro wedding when they need or want to, and follow it up with a larger celebration with all of their friends and family when they have the resources, or when gathering restrictions allow. This means plenty of time for the couple to save for their bigger day while not having to stress about any of the legal aspects of the marriage 鈥 because they鈥檙e already married! This type of event has been dubbed a 鈥.鈥

We can鈥檛 wait to host weddings on campus again when it is safe to do so! Until then, stay safe, stay healthy, and starting thinking about the wedding of your dreams!

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